This is so incredibly valuable to ponder. I have a daily calendar from Adam Grant, and Wednesday's "Something to Think About" was:
"Not having an opinion is not a sign of ignorance or indifference. It's often a mark of an open mind.
The more complex and consequential the issue, the more critical thinking depends on suspending judgement.
A good habit for learning is gathering information without forming a conclusion."
It's interesting. Early in my career I was often coached to "have an opinion", "speak up faster", etc.
I think those qualities are important in the right setting. AND, I have found it incredibly important in leadership (and quite honestly - simply as humanity) to set those aside to exercise what you spoke about "active listening" or "listening to understand". It IS truly ACTIVE listening - because I am constantly gut checking myself to see if I'm engaged in the listening process or if I'm in my own head thinking about how to respond, processing something different, etc.
I've been reading Adam Grant's Think Again and this same logic/concept is well outlined by him. Glad to know I wasn't the only one making the connection.
This is so incredibly valuable to ponder. I have a daily calendar from Adam Grant, and Wednesday's "Something to Think About" was:
"Not having an opinion is not a sign of ignorance or indifference. It's often a mark of an open mind.
The more complex and consequential the issue, the more critical thinking depends on suspending judgement.
A good habit for learning is gathering information without forming a conclusion."
It's interesting. Early in my career I was often coached to "have an opinion", "speak up faster", etc.
I think those qualities are important in the right setting. AND, I have found it incredibly important in leadership (and quite honestly - simply as humanity) to set those aside to exercise what you spoke about "active listening" or "listening to understand". It IS truly ACTIVE listening - because I am constantly gut checking myself to see if I'm engaged in the listening process or if I'm in my own head thinking about how to respond, processing something different, etc.
Thanks for sharing. I want to have a buzzer implanted into be for bringing old thinking, not having an open mind or judging!
Wouldn't that be incredible! Zap!
I've been reading Adam Grant's Think Again and this same logic/concept is well outlined by him. Glad to know I wasn't the only one making the connection.
I hate when I find myself saying wrong too fast without listening. Anyone else? Tactics you have used to overcome?